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Lizzo Shares Moving Message After Having “Really Negative Thoughts” About Herself

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Lizzo Calls Out Body Shamers In TikTok Video

With all of her awards, chart-topping hits and devoted fans, Lizzo seems like she has it all. But even superstars have tough times.

The 32-year-old singer had a candid conversation with her followers about how she’s been feeling in a video posted to TikTok on Tuesday, Dec. 8. 

“I came home, and I took my clothes off to take a shower, and I just started having all of these really negative thoughts about myself,” the “Juice” artist said. “Like, you know, ‘What’s wrong with me?’ ‘Maybe everything, all the mean things people say about me are true.’ And, you know, ‘Why am I so disgusting?’ and hating my body.”

While Lizzo noted she would normally “have some positive thing to say” to get “out of this,” she didn’t this time. “And that’s OK, too,” she continued. “I think these are normal. They happen to everybody. They happen to the best of us. We are the best of us.”

Ultimately, she said she just has to know that, tomorrow, how she feels is going to change and that she “can only hope that it changes for the better.” “But I know I’m beautiful,” the Grammy winner added. “I just don’t feel it. But I know I’m going to get through it.”

In the video’s caption, she sent some words of encouragement to her fans. “A little tmi for ur fyp,” she wrote, “for anyone who has these thoughts too I hope you have a better day tomorrow.”

After seeing the clip, several of her followers sent her support. “It will be OK,” one commenter wrote. “We all have bad days. Sending you love.”

Added another, “You have inspired millions of women to actually love their beautiful bodies, to appreciate and love themselves wholly. It’s OK to not be OK. But don’t let strangers’ words tarnish and sour you. You ARE loved, you ARE beautiful and you ARE AMAZING. Keep going babes.”

Other social media users thanked Lizzo for being open with them. “Thank you for this moment of vulnerability,” one follower wrote. “So real…I hope soon you see yourself like so many of us do. A beautiful, funny and talented queen.”

Wrote another, “Thank you for being real and sharing your vulnerability. You are so confident all the time, it means a lot to see this too. You are a queen baby.”

Finding the Beauty in Yourself

On struggling with self-confidence, Lizzo told CBS Sunday Morning, “It’s not something that you really change. It’s something that you address and work on. I had to address every layer of insecurity because I can’t just be like, ‘Alright, my arm’s not jiggly and lumpy anymore.’ That’s delusional. You have to be like, ‘That’s not ugly to me anymore and it’s not wrong to me. It’s beautiful to me.'”

How to Save the World…According to Lizzo

“I’m all about body positivity and self-love because I believe that we can save the world if we first save ourselves,” Lizzo told fans at a show in Sydney, Australia in January 2020, according to local newspaper The Daily Telegraph.

Lizzo vs. Jillian Michaels

In January 2020, the former Biggest Loser trainer said on Buzzfeed News’ digital series AM to DM, “Why are we celebrating [Lizzo’s] body? Why does it matter? Why aren’t we celebrating her music? ‘Cause it isn’t going to be awesome if she gets diabetes.” Fans accused Michaels of fat-shaming the star.

Lizzo later said on Instagram, “I have done nothing wrong. I forgive myself for thinking I was wrong in the first place. I deserve to be happy.” She also said, “If my name is in your mouth, so is my p—y, bitch. Enjoy the flavor!”

Michaels later said on E!’s Daily Pop, “We cannot deny the inevitable fact that being overweight leads to heart disease, cancer, diabetes, and these things kill people. So if me telling you I don’t celebrate someone being overweight because it could kill them is fat-shaming, ya got me. But by the way, I also don’t celebrate anybody’s weight. I don’t celebrate you if you’re a [size] 0. I don’t celebrate you if you’re a [size] 6. I don’t care.”

“And the argument that I’m trying to make is that I think people have felt so marginalized for so long and so excluded for so long, that the pendulum has swung to this place where it’s like, ‘You can’t hurt me with this, I love being overweight,'” Michaels continued. “And that’s the part where I, as a health expert, have to say, this will kill you.”

“I don’t celebrate anyone being overweight because it kills people,” she said. “And denying that fact because it’s politically correct isn’t honorable and isn’t virtuous. It’s irresponsible and arguably dangerous. I just, I’m sorry I won’t lie because it’ll make you like me. I don’t think it’s doing anyone any favors.”

Respecting Your Journey

“You’re not supposed to be happy all the time,” she told a group of band musicians at her high school, as captured in a CBS Sunday Morning profile. “You’re not supposed to know what you’re doing all the time, especially at this age, but not knowing what you’re doing has nothing to do with where you’re going, so I want you to know that. Cherish your journey and respect your journey.”

Normalizing Her Dimples

In May 2019, Lizzo, who plays a stripper in Hustlers, told Essence, “I love creating shapes with my body, and I love normalizing the dimples in my butt or the lumps in my thighs or my back fat or my stretch marks. I love normalizing my black-ass elbows. I think it’s beautiful.”

“I made a decision to be myself because I knew I had no choice,” she added. “Sometimes the label ‘unapologetic’ bothers me because it can be loaded, because it means we have to apologize for something in the first place. I’m not ignorant to the fact that we had to have a demeanor of lowering ourselves culturally just to exist. But I’m trying to shake up the narrative about how we’re supposed to act.”

Love Your Body

In May 2019, Lizzo shared a topless mirror selfie on Instagram, writing, “Can’t tell if I look better w/ or w/out clothes.”

Lizzo’s “Glow Up” Revenge

At the 2019 BET Awards, Lizzo told E! News, “Last year I came to the BET Awards, I tried to go to the carpet and the carpet closed and they were like, ‘You gotta just go inside.’ And now I’m on the carpet doing all these interviews, taking all these pictures, feeling like that bitch, nominated and performing on the main stage. I couldn’t ask for a better glow up.”

Say No to Racism

In June 2019, Lizzo said a racist and “bigoted” security guard attacked members of her team at Summerfest, tweeting, “Friendly reminder that you don’t have to say the ‘n word’ to be racist. That’s not the sole requirement. Asking people to prove racism is another tool the oppressor uses to marginalize and discredit us.”

Healing Yourself

“I want people to feel good! We can heal the world but first, we have to heal ourselves,” Lizzo told fans while performing at the 2019 We Can Survive benefit concert supporting the American Cancer Society.

No to Non-Single Men

“Please do not send me poems, letters, or paintings if ur side bitch is still playing dress up in ur home,” she wrote on Instagram in November 2019. “I’m doing great. Leave me alone, thanks.”

Anxiety Fuels Her

“When I get really, really anxious before a show, I just go harder and harder and harder when I’m performing and I just go crazy,” Lizzo told British Vogue in fall 2019. “I don’t know why, but my anxiety sometimes fuels who I am as a performer and who I am as an artist – and I know that is not the case for everyone. I don’t know if my body just, like, out of a desperate need to find a place for my anxiety or find a use for it, takes it and puts it there.”

Mean Tweets

On Jimmy Kimmel Live! in November 2019, Lizzo joined celebs in reading Mean Tweets. One of them said, “Lizzo. Bus passes and happy meals. Two things that I imagine #Lizzo has seen a lot of.” She responded, “Yeah, I’m a big bitch and I ride a bus. A tour bus, motherf–ker. Where’s yours?!”

Tiny Bag, Big Impact

Lizzo attended the 2019 American Music Awards sporting what she said was a “bag big enough for my f–ks to give,” adding, “Big body bitch in a Valentin-HO custom look for.”

Say, “I Love You, Me”

“Close your eyes and say, ‘I love you, me,'” she told the crowd while performing at iHeartRadio’s 102.7 KIIS FM 2019 Jingle Ball in December 2019. “Now look at me and say, ‘I love you, Lizzo. Now this is a very no judgment crowd, no shame in your game. If you want to wiggle, I want to see you wiggle. If you want to laugh, then laugh. If you want to scream, scream!”

Later in her set, she told the crowd, “Thank you for accepting me for who I am. I want to let you know that if 20,000 people can accept me for who I am, the whole world can fall in love with you.”

Learn to Love Your Butt

“You know how long it took me to fall in love with this body?” the longtime body positivity advocate said on CBS This Morning in December 2019. “My butt was my least favorite thing about myself. And I learned to love it. And now it’s the thing everybody can’t stop talking about… Be you. Do you. Don’t let anybody steal your joy.”
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